5. Understand The Disorder
The absolute best way to deal with a disorder is to understand it. The more you understand the causes, symptoms, and treatments of BPD the more you’ll be able to maintain patience, find strength, and live a semi-normal life with your loved one. Understanding the personality disorder is your guide to handling it.
6. Hang On to The Good Times
Above all, don’t forget the reason that you love your partner in the first place. If you can hang on to the good times and all that they mean for you, your partner, and your relationship, it will make the difficult times significantly easier. Any time you find yourself struggling to find hope, acknowledge the reasons you love your partner, whether verbally or in writing. This could make all the difference in the success of your BPD relationship.