9 Signs How Narcissists Make Sure You Never Solve Problems In A Relationship

6. The victim

Somehow the narcissist’s problems and their confusing behavior that’s inconsistent with a marriage or relationship will always lead back to a conversation about their abusive past,and then they compare you to their former abuser, even if the former abuser ex IS the problem causing the confusion. The idea is for you to end up feeling bad for them, even when they’ve done something wrong. Then after doing this, they will seek an opportunity to bond with you over their supposed complex feelings. And once they have successfully averted your attention elsewhere by acting as if they have changed, they will soon become distant and things go back to the way they were…. no bonding or deep spiritual connection whatsoever. They are the ones saying “abuse” while being abusive—and, in the end, you are left feeling nothing but empty.
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