Hey, the narcissist is all about playing games with your head. It’s what they do. So, how do you screw that up? What’s “anti-game” when dealing with a narcissist?
That’s easy. It’s like this…the narcissist watches you very closely and picks up a lot of clues about how to manipulate and confuse you from watching your language and conversation, your emotional reactions, and your body language. Narcs are masters at reading people. So, that’s what you disrupt.
Now, keep in mind, with a narcissist, there is nothing authentic and it’s always a chess match with the other person, and the narcissist plays to win every time. But, his Achilles heel is that the narcissist MUST play the game since they know of no other way to deal with people. So, with the narcissist, things are never as they seem.