Narcissistic Victim Syndrome: What the heck is that?

To-day I do a great deal of work in this area, and my mission is to teach other therapist  all that I have learned, so that they too can become more effective in working in the area of this form of abuse, which is very much on the increase.  My intention is not to “bad mouth” those who are suffering from Narcissistic Personality Disorder, on the contrary,  I believe that they are also victims of abuse somewhere in their past, and they too suffer greatly on a daily basis.  What I hope is that my study will allows for more compassion towards both the narcissist and the victim, and provide therapists with insights for a better way of recognizing and working with narcissistic abuse in the therapeutic process.

What is Narcissistic Victim Syndrome?

First, what is the definition of the word “Victim”?  –  “A victim is a person harmed, injured, or killed as a result of a crime, accident, or other event or action”.  So I think we can safely say (using this definition), that any person who has experienced narcissistic abuse has been harmed, injured, and in some cases, even  killed as result of the narcissists behaviour, then they are indeed victims.
When working with individuals who are displaying symptoms of narcissistic victim syndrome, the thing that I notice most of all is that the person feels so torn because they don’t understand what has happened to them.  Before they can begin to put themselves back together, I believe that it is vital that the therapist must, through the process of the therapeutic work in progress, educate the individual in the area of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (the What, the When, the How, and the Why of the abuse etc) so that they can begin to make sense of what was really happening as their story unfolds.  Without such information it is virtually impossible to build up their self-esteem to healthy levels, thus leaving them vulnerable to further re-victimization, and future entrapment with other narcissists.

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