The problem with falling in love with a narcissist is that you never know he’s a narcissist until it’s too late. Until you’re already broken.
Another problem with falling in love is the fact that you can’t stop yourself from it. Once that avalanche is launched, you can only sit tight until it stops on its own.
Even if the girl who got broken by a narcissist wanted to stop herself—she couldn’t.
Because narcissists are so good at disguise she had no idea what she was getting herself into. If she did, even though she wasn’t able to stop herself from falling for him, she could at least have stopped herself from giving him a chance.
She would’ve stopped herself from giving him a chance and welcoming him into her life. But, unfortunately, she had no idea she was getting herself into the game with a player she couldn’t outplay.
She was the victim of this game she unconsciously started to play with a narcissist. And now, long after it finished, she still lives the consequences of him. Inside her mind is a mess. It’s worse than in the haunted house because she never knows which horrible memory will come to the surface to haunt her.